Maybe you just turned 30 and you are single and most of the people in your life are married or on their way to marriage. You are happy and you love your life, but you are starting to wonder if you will be single forever. How should you keep dating in order to find a long-term relationship but without sounding desperate? Benefits of Single Life There are benefits of being single and even though you have probably heard it before, it is important that you work on who you are and that you spend time getting to know yourself. Instead of focusing on being single, focus on your life and…

Have you been stressed out lately? Has your job or your relationship gotten you down? Do you feel that you have a lack of energy and a sour mood? Maybe you love new things and you love new projects that you get to do at your job, but when life gets hard, it is harder to see the good things that you love. Some people have struggled with stress and anxiety for a long time, maybe even from childhood or teenage years. These are things that you might have ignored but now that you are older, you realize that the little stressors in life have become harder and the shortcomings…

No matter what cruel words people may hurl your way, your self-worth is lessened only when you give these words power.  You can become more resilient towards negativity by setting and honoring clear boundaries.  Sure, people will test the strength of the boundaries, but hold fast to your belief and values.  If you sense people are trying to manipulate you, call them out.  It only takes one time for you to allow a limit to break before people will take advantage of the situation.  Once a person knows a boundary isn’t solid it will set the pattern for future oversteps.  You are stronger than you realize and here are seven…

The dating world can be overwhelming, but it is not all that scary once you have mastered keeping a guy interested with the right types of texts. When you like a guy, really like him, you often worry he will get bored with you and move on, so you start trying to stay in contact. The first step is to stop worrying about losing this guy because it will leave you paranoid and nervous which will make him lose interest quickly. So, breathe in and out a few times slowly and read on. The second step is to not worry if he does lose interest. He is not the only…

Falling in love is a natural thing. However, some people tend to fall in love with love. These people are in for a lot of heartaches without ever truly finding their soulmate. If this is you, you could benefit from a step back from your emotions and some clear thinking about your romantic situation. Romance is a balance of emotion and logic, and although that doesn’t sound romantic, it is the best course for finding someone that could be a lifelong love. Here are five ways to curtail your decision making and stop falling in love so quickly: Quit trying to fulfill yourself with love. Many people who are on…

Nothing will make you stronger than someone hurting you and breaking your heart.  When you fall in love with someone and you find that your world has been turned upside down, in a good way, you become one with that person that you love. Sometimes, this person makes us want to be someone better, someone great.  We want our love to make us a better person so that we can share a lifetime together of happiness and fun. There is more to life than that, falling in love is also a chance that we can see what we want in the future and helps us to know what goals and…

We are likely to do great things when we surround ourselves with great people. We need people, that’s the truth. Association contributes a lot to how we think and act.  I’m not sure about you, but I want to be around amazing people who have big dreams and goals. Below are ways you can attract amazing individuals into your life: Be that individual If you are in pursuit of attracting great people to you, you need to be that person first. Be what you want. We are frequently attracted to like-minded individuals. It is simple and basic if you want an amazing person to be an amazing person. Be a…

How to deal with rejection: Lately, quite a number of individuals around me have been struggling with relationship anxiety.  One friend specifically, has been trying to get over a lover who decided to let go of the relationship just after very few months. She’s undergoing a very hard time. During this time, we’ve come up with a list of reminders to help her overcome all these. All she needs to do is adhere and follow all these in order to come out stronger and better. To boost my confidence and restore my calmness, I will do the following things: My frustrations result from brain chemistry not that I’m crazy. My…